Overview
This lecture covers development in middle childhood (3-12 years) across physical, motor, cognitive, emotional and social domains, then moves to two clinically-oriented applications: recognising and responding to childhood bullying, and communicating effectively with children and parents in a consultation, including how early identification of developmental delay supports early intervention.
Developmental Tasks and Domains of Middle Childhood
- Core developmental tasks of middle childhood (Masten & Coatsworth, 1998): school adjustment and academic achievement; peer relationships; rule-governed behaviour.
- Development in this period spans five interacting domains: physical, motor, cognitive, emotional, social.
Physical and Motor Development
- Physical development: growing pains as muscles adapt to an enlarging skeleton; all primary (baby) teeth are lost between 6 and 12 years; a balanced diet is important for growth and development; typical onset of puberty is 10-14 years in girls and 12-16 years in boys.
- Motor development, age 6-7: gross motor skills include hopping, jumping, climbing, riding a bike; fine motor skills include tying shoelaces, doing up buttons/zippers, brushing teeth, washing themselves, using a knife and fork (or chopsticks), and holding a pencil in an adult grip.
- Motor development, age 8-12: continued development of balance, coordination and strength.
Cognitive Development
- Key cognitive achievements of middle childhood: Theory of Mind, inhibition, deception, categorisation, conservation, episodic memory.
- Theory of mind / false belief understanding is typically present from around age 4 onward.
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- Conservation tasks (Piagetian, e.g. conservation of number) are typically mastered between about 6 and 11 years, with the exact age depending on which conservation task/metric is used.
- Episodic memory: very young children can form autobiographical memories, but as adults the typical earliest recallable memory dates from age 3-4 years. The preceding period, from which memories are inaccessible, is called infantile amnesia.
Emotional and Language Development
- Emotional development: extending emotional literacy; emotion regulation; empathy; socially sanctioned deception; self-reflection and insight. Children may need help achieving these skills.
- Language and social-communication development in middle childhood: use of long and complex sentences; understanding others’ points of view and expressing agreement or disagreement; keeping a conversation going by giving reasons and explaining choices; starting conversations with adults and children they don’t know; understanding and using passive sentences (e.g. “the thief is chased by the policeman”); improving clarity of speech; increasing sentence length and complexity; improving ability to elaborate on responses.
Social Development and Self-Concept
- Social development: formation of a coherent self-concept; major developments in peer relations (a developmental task); developing morality; increased independence; learning to cooperate; developing a sense of social justice.
- Self-concept: a description of self using internal and external characteristics, shaped by cognitive development plus exposure to experiences and feedback from parents, teachers and peers.
- Cultural difference in expression: Euro-American children tend to use personal references, e.g. “I am a wonderful and very smart person”; Chinese children tend to use social references, e.g. “I’m my mom and dad’s child, my grandma and grandpa’s grandson.”
- Self-esteem: an evaluative judgement of self, influenced by culture, family, peers and own values.
- Age-related change in self-description (“Who am I?”):
- 4-8 years: singular, concrete attributes and comparisons, e.g. “I’m a boy,” “I have yellow hair,” “I’m bigger than my baby sister.”
- 8-11 years: perceived personality traits and psychological qualities rather than physical appearance; self-descriptions become more abstract (e.g. “smart,” “friendly”) and more complex/differentiated, with children able to recognise their own strengths and weaknesses, e.g. “I am better than Alex at reading but he is better than me in Maths.”
- Signs of high self-esteem: positive self-image; confident; makes friends easily and is not anxious with new people; plays well in groups or alone; tries to solve problems independently but asks for help when needed; proud of achievements; can admit and learn from mistakes; tries new things and adapts to change.
- Signs of low self-esteem: negative self-image (may feel bad, ugly, unlikeable or stupid); lacks confidence; finds it hard to make/keep friendships and may feel victimised; feels lonely and isolated; avoids new things and finds change hard; copes poorly with failure; uses self-critical language (e.g. “I’m stupid,” “I can’t do that”); is not proud of achievements and thinks they could always have done better; constantly makes negative comparisons to peers.
- Low self-esteem is linked to anxiety, depression, eating disorders, relationship issues and substance abuse.
Peer Relations and Bullying
- Healthy peer relations foster empathy, helping behaviour, social/emotional growth and a sense of belonging.
- Bullying is defined by three features: (1) an intentional act of aggression aimed at causing physical, psychological or emotional distress; (2) a disproportionate power imbalance, with the stronger individual or group abusing the weaker one; (3) the behaviour pattern is repeated over time.
- 94% of NZ teachers reported that bullying occurs at their school. Children and families often look to their primary physician for advice on handling these situations.
- Four types of bullying:
- Physical: hitting, kicking, slapping, pinching, spitting, tripping, pushing, blocking; stealing or destroying possessions; mean/rude hand gestures; unwanted or inappropriate touching.
- Verbal: name-calling, insults, teasing, intimidation, homophobic or racist remarks, inappropriate sexual comments, taunting, threats of harm.
- Social: lying and spreading rumours; deliberately leaving someone out; telling others not to be friends with someone; embarrassing someone in public; damaging someone’s social reputation or relationships.
- Cyber: posting or sending hurtful texts, emails, posts, images or videos; online threats; impersonating others or using their log-in; deliberately excluding others online; spreading rumours online.
- Characteristics and effects by role (Stephens et al., 2018):
- Bully - characteristics: easily frustrated; positive attitude toward violence; impulsive; perceives threats where none exist.
- Short-term effects: antisocial personality features; conduct problems and school disengagement; depression; increased suicidal ideation, attempts and completed suicide; vandalism, shoplifting, fighting; substance abuse; school underachievement.
- Long-term effects: aggression; antisocial behaviour; criminal acts; increased substance abuse; underperformance in employment; severe relationship problems.
- Victim - characteristics: insecure; may believe they deserve the mistreatment; perceived as weak or different; socially isolated; unassertive.
- Short-term effects: anxiety (social phobia, OCD, panic disorder); chronic absenteeism; depression; sleep difficulty; increased suicidal ideation, attempts and completed suicide; more likely to carry weapons for safety or retaliation; nightmares/bedwetting; poor academic performance; PTSD; psychosomatic problems (e.g. headache, abdominal pain, especially in the morning); self-harm.
- Long-term effects: depression and anxiety; high stress and isolation; increased suicidal ideation, attempts and completed suicide; low self-esteem; poor academic achievement; poor psychosocial adjustment; PTSD.
- Bully-victim (a victim who reactively bullies others, typically younger children) - characteristics: prone to irritating others/creating social tension; quick-tempered and emotionally reactive; reacts to being bullied by fighting back and may claim self-defence.
- Short-term effects: conduct problems and school disengagement; depression and anxiety; fighting; increased suicidal ideation, attempts and completed suicide; more likely to carry weapons; psychosomatic problems; self-harm; social ostracisation; substance abuse.
- Long-term effects: depression; increased suicidal ideation, attempts and completed suicide; increased substance abuse; moderate-to-severe impairment in social functioning and intimate relationships; PTSD; psychiatric illness.
- Bully - characteristics: easily frustrated; positive attitude toward violence; impulsive; perceives threats where none exist.
Assessing and Responding to Bullying in Practice
- SORT key recommendations for practice (Stephens et al., 2018), all rated evidence level C (consensus, disease-oriented evidence, usual practice, or expert opinion):
- Ask about bullying when children present with multiple somatic problems, school avoidance, or self-harm.
- Use indirect, open-ended questioning to increase identification of children who are bullying or being bullied.
- Include questions about children’s/adolescents’ online lives in the history.
- Screen patients identified as bullied or as bullies for psychiatric comorbidities.
- A four-step approach to assessing bullying: normalise, then check in, then validate, then encourage elaboration, followed by asking what support/resources the child has and what extra help they might need.
- Normalise/check in phrasing: “sometimes things happen for kids at school that make them [unhappy, worried, angry etc] and those things can also affect their bodies and the things that they do. Is there anything like that happening for you?”; “Sometimes kids feel [unhappy at school / don’t feel safe / don’t feel treated ok]? Are there ever times you feel that way? Tell me all about that.”
- Validate/encourage elaboration phrasing: “That sounds [hard/tough/difficult/worrying/tricky etc]. Help me understand more about what is going on.”; “It makes sense you are [having a hard time/not feeling so good/getting upset]. What else can you tell me about what’s been going on and how that is for you?”
- Resources/help phrasing: “Who knows about what has been happening? / Have you talked to anyone about what’s been going on? / Who is someone that you could talk to / could help you?”; “What do you need for things to be better? What would you like to be different/change? What would help?”
Physician’s Role in Child Development
- Communicating with children and parents across this period:
- Child as expert: capable of providing useful information in response to open questions, but may not spontaneously signal difficulties or recognise what information the physician needs - pair specific questions with open ones (“child-led interviewing”).
- Be aware: keep language and ideas concrete; check understanding rather than assuming (ask for examples/elaboration); check expectations.
- Encourage parents to share any concerns about a child’s development or behaviour; ask for examples or a description of a recent occurrence; assess broadly, considering the systems the child functions within.
- Refer for specialist assessment and treatment where indicated.
- Effective early identification of developmental delay, with timely early intervention, can positively alter a child’s long-term trajectory (Scherzer et al., 2012).
- Children at higher risk of being bullied, and who should be screened carefully, include those with a disability, depression, a recent move, or learning/behaviour problems.
Consider bullying when a child has frequent headaches, abdominal pain, sleep difficulties or enuresis, when a previously stable chronic condition begins deteriorating for unexplained reasons, or when a child becomes non-adherent to their medication regimen.
- Additional resources: ebook “Development During Middle Childhood: The Years From Six to Twelve” (NCBI Bookshelf); Stephens et al. (2018) “Childhood Bullying: Implications for Physicians”; bullyingfree.nz.
Self-test
- List the three developmental tasks of middle childhood identified by Masten & Coatsworth (1998).
- List the five domains of development covered in this lecture.
- State the typical age range for puberty onset in girls and in boys.
- List three fine motor skills typically established by age 6-7.
- List the six key cognitive achievements of middle childhood highlighted in this lecture.
- At what age does theory of mind / false belief understanding typically emerge?
- Describe what a conservation task assesses and the typical age range over which conservation ability develops.
- Define infantile amnesia and state the typical age of the earliest recallable memory in adults.
- List three ways children’s language/conversational ability advances during middle childhood.
- Distinguish how children’s self-descriptions typically differ between ages 4-8 and ages 8-11.
- Distinguish the Euro-American versus Chinese cultural patterns in self-concept expression described in the lecture.
- List four signs that might suggest a child has low self-esteem.
- Define bullying using its three defining features.
- Distinguish the four types of bullying, giving one example of each.
- Compare one short-term effect experienced by a bully with one short-term effect experienced by a victim.
- Describe the four-step approach to assessing bullying in a consultation.
- A child with previously well-controlled epilepsy begins missing doses and their seizures worsen for no clear medical reason. What should the physician consider, and what other clinical clues might support this suspicion?
- Describe two principles for communicating effectively with a child patient, according to the “child as expert” approach.
- Explain how early identification of a developmental or emotional concern (e.g. low self-esteem, bullying, or developmental delay) connects to the physician’s role in improving a child’s long-term outcome.
Answers
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- School adjustment and academic achievement; peer relationships; rule-governed behaviour.
- Physical, motor, cognitive, emotional, social.
- Girls: 10-14 years. Boys: 12-16 years.
- Any three of: tying shoelaces, doing up buttons/zippers, brushing teeth, washing themselves, using a knife and fork (or chopsticks), holding a pencil in an adult grip.
- Theory of mind, inhibition, deception, categorisation, conservation, episodic memory.
- From around age 4 onward.
- A conservation task assesses whether a child understands that a quantity (e.g. number) stays the same despite a change in appearance/arrangement; it is typically mastered between about 6 and 11 years, with the exact age depending on which task/metric is used.
- Infantile amnesia is the period before about 3-4 years from which adults cannot recall memories; the typical earliest recallable memory in adults is from age 3-4 years.
- Any three of: using long/complex sentences; understanding others’ viewpoints and expressing agreement/disagreement; keeping a conversation going by giving reasons and explaining choices; starting conversations with unfamiliar adults/children; understanding and using passive sentences; improved clarity of speech; increased sentence length/complexity; improved ability to elaborate on responses.
- 4-8 years: singular, concrete attributes and comparisons (e.g. “I’m a boy,” “I’m bigger than my baby sister”). 8-11 years: more abstract personality/psychological descriptions (e.g. “smart,” “friendly”), more complex and differentiated, including recognition of own strengths and weaknesses.
- Euro-American children tend to use personal references (e.g. “I am a wonderful and very smart person”); Chinese children tend to use social references (e.g. “I’m my mom and dad’s child, my grandma and grandpa’s grandson”).
- Any four of: negative self-image; lacks confidence; difficulty making/keeping friendships or feeling victimised; loneliness/isolation; avoiding new things/finding change hard; coping poorly with failure; self-critical language; not proud of achievements; constant negative comparison to peers.
- An intentional act of aggression aimed at causing physical, psychological or emotional distress; a disproportionate power imbalance between the stronger and weaker party; the behaviour is repeated over time.
- Physical (e.g. hitting, pushing); verbal (e.g. name-calling, threats); social (e.g. spreading rumours, deliberate exclusion); cyber (e.g. posting hurtful content online, online impersonation).
- Example: bullies show increased conduct problems/school disengagement in the short term, while victims show increased anxiety and psychosomatic problems (e.g. headache, abdominal pain) in the short term.
- Normalise, then check in, then validate, then encourage elaboration, then ask what support/resources the child has and what extra help they might need.
- The physician should consider that bullying may be occurring, since a previously stable chronic condition deteriorating for unexplained reasons or new non-adherence to medication is a flagged indicator; supporting clues include frequent headaches, abdominal pain, sleep difficulties, or enuresis.
- Any two of: treat the child as an expert capable of providing useful information via open questions, but pair specific questions with open ones since the child may not spontaneously signal difficulties (child-led interviewing); keep language and ideas concrete; check understanding rather than assuming, by asking for examples/elaboration; check the child’s expectations.
- Effective early identification of concerns such as low self-esteem, bullying, or developmental delay, combined with timely early intervention or referral for specialist assessment and treatment, can positively alter a child’s long-term trajectory (Scherzer et al., 2012); the physician’s role (asking open questions, screening at-risk children, referring appropriately) is the mechanism by which such early identification happens.